Westchester County, N.Y., is the archetypal affluent suburb where everyone should want to school their children. But it’s a different equation for parents of color.
I was at a housewarming party recently with the parents of many of my sons’ current and former classmates. As is typically the case when you get a bunch of parents together, the conversation shifted to the topic of schools — the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Both of my kids currently attend a private school in Westchester County, N.Y., just outside New York City, a very affluent suburb that is the fifth-wealthiest county in the state and the 47th wealthiest nationally.
My boys both started at their school at the age of two because we wanted to ensure they had a strong learning foundation even before entering primary school. Our experience has been good, but we still had every intention of sending our kids to public school when the time came. We’d always heard that Westchester was chock-full of great public schools. What we didn’t realize was that our definition of a great school might be different from others and, in reality, the options for us are pretty slim.
It turns out we’re not alone. As I was talking with other parents at the party, it dawned on me that almost every one of them sent their kids to private schools in the area, and almost all of the kids were black and brown, like my sons. These are all college-educated, professional people living in one of the richest counties in the state. Yet, none of us felt we had acceptable public school options. How can that be?
The challenge
For one thing, there’s a lack of diversity and equality in Westchester’s public schools. While the county offers some of the highest-ranked schools in the nation, many of them are also more than 85% white. The predominately black and Hispanic schools nearby rank among the worst in the nation or are mediocre at best. And these aren’t urban schools where you often hear about economic disparity among neighboring districts. These are middle-class suburbs struggling with the same inequities in resources.
This automatically disqualifies many of the African-American parents I know who live in these less desired school districts from being able to choose a public school for their children. Students of color are already at a disadvantage: Research shows that even black middle-class students perform at lower levels than their white middle-class peers — so their parents are forced to send them to private schools with better resources and opportunities.
Children of color whose families live in higher-ranked school districts face different challenges. I’ve always believed that a good education is about more than academics; it’s about developing the whole person and exposing them to diverse people and ideas. Being the only brown face in a sea of white ones doesn’t exactly meet my criteria for diversity. I know from my own experience that being a minority in a majority white school can take an emotional toll.
The need
We need to demand better options. We need more choices and more integrated schools.
I know the topic of desegregation is taboo, but how can we continue to dismiss it when black and Hispanic kids — urban, suburban, rich, or poor — are being so woefully underserved by our schools? Studies show that the gap between black and white students begins to close when they are in the same classrooms and have access to the same resources, including high-quality teachers.
It seems a no-brainer to me, but it still feels like a pipe dream. So for now, I and many of the parents of color I know will continue to go out of our way to send our children to private schools where we can feel confident they are getting a solid education and are around others who look like them, as well as those who do not. But I will continue to question why that has to come at such a high cost.
Note: This article is reprinted with permission of Education Post, which originally published this as a blog post. http://educationpost.org/why-families-of-color-leave-great-suburban-schools/
Citation: Galiber, M.G. (2016). BACKTALK: Finding good schools in a land of plenty. Phi Delta Kappan, 97 (6), 80.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Marisa Grimes Galiber
MARISA GRIMES GALIBER is a public relations executive and mother of two boys, ages 6 and 3. She has lived in Westchester County, N.Y., for nearly 15 years.
